
“Beloved, if God so loved us, we also ought to love one another.” I John 4:11
“And this commandment we have from him: whoever loves God must also love his brother.” I John 4:21
Terri, the sweet lady who had done my nails for several years, was not at the salon that day. Instead, she had taken the day off to be at the funeral home due to the death of her mother. Because Terri had talked about her mom at previous appointments, I always made it a priority to ask how she was doing. Naturally, I was saddened to hear the news of her passing.
As a little background information, Terri and I became friends on my very first visit to see her about 10 years ago. At the end of the visit, I not only gave her a nice tip but also a copy of God’s Word. She said she would read it to practice her English. After that, our friendship seemed to be that of mutual love and respect for one another.
Although Terri was of the Buddhist religion, it became apparent that she was respectful of my Christian faith. During my appointments at the salon, she often talked about life growing up in Vietnam. Sometimes, she cried because of cruel words from others that had been spoken to her as a child. Once we even cried together, for her story broke my heart. I always listened, did my best to encourage her, and felt honored that she trusted me enough to acknowledge the pain she was still feeling, even after many years.
My daughter, Shelly also went to the same salon and became friends with Terri and the other ladies there. Granddaughter Sophie, then four years old, helped to seal the friendships we all had. When Shelly became sick and as her cancer progressed, each time we were there, Terri and the other employees treated her with extra special care. Many times, Terri cried. She had grown to love Shelly very much and it saddened her to see Shelly so sick.
Because of the bond Terri and I shared, I felt very strongly that it was important for me to go to the funeral home to pay my respects that afternoon. After the appointment, I quickly went home, changed into more appropriate clothing, and headed out.
When I arrived at the funeral home, I was greeted with such love and warmth. Terri and her niece, TG, who also worked at the salon, gave the biggest hugs, with tears. They were very appreciative of my visit. What a beautiful family. I have NEVER seen as many flowers as this dearly departed lady had been given to honor her 94 years of life. It was evident how deeply loved she was by many people. As I stood there in the moment, I silently thanked God for the “nudge” He had given me to visit the funeral home that day.
You know, friends, our hands, and our hearts are capable of many human and spiritual responses. That day, I simply used both to hold a hand and give hugs to one who was hurting due to her loss. I told Terri and her family that I would be praying for them. It was the most important thing I could do for a family who was grieving.
Terri retired three years ago and I no longer go to that particular nail salon. Although she and I were different in many ways, I believe that our loving Heavenly Father brought us together for a little window of time, all for His good purposes. As God does with all of creation, He sees great value in Terri’s worth. I pray that she saw Jesus through me—not for my glory, but for His alone!! As God allowed, I planted and watered the seed by His leading. I think of Terri often and continue to pray that someone else will reap the harvest of seeing her come to know Jesus as her personal Savior.
Today, I urge you to be on the lookout for your own Divine Appointments. You will find them in many of your daily routines and activities. You are the hands and feet of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ here on earth and He wants to use you for His good purposes. All He needs from you is a willing heart and He will do the rest.
Prayer: Dear Heavenly Father, from everlasting to everlasting, You are God. There is none like You. We thank You for loving us so extravagantly and for placing others in our daily walk of life with whom we can share Your love. I pray that You will keep Divine Appointments on my calendar, and the calendar of Christians everywhere who are praying to make an eternal difference in the lives of others. I pray, even now, that my friend Terri and her family will come to know the true and living God, for You have already filled her with great love for others. Help us to always serve others with gladness and Your joy in our hearts. I pray this in the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.








